As human beings, we have enormous potential, but one of the greatest limitations placed on that potential is our perspective. Whether we realize it or not, we are constantly drawing conclusions based on our background, ourexperiences, our conditioning, and the things we have been exposed to throughout life. This happens automatically. It is one of the natural functions of the mind. We compare, categorize, interpret, and
In today’s world, your attention is under constant attack. At any given moment, there are countless forces competing for your focus. Notifications, messages, news, social media, conversations, and problems are all pulling at your awareness, trying to redirect your attention away from what you are doing and toward something else. Most of the time, that “something else” has very little value.
There comes a point in every warrior’s life when the pursuit of power, precision, and performance gives way to a deeper question. How do I preserve it? After decades of training in the martial and combative sciences, I came to realize that longevity is not simply the absence of decay. It’s a skill. It can be trained, refined, and lived.
I talk about developing timeless tools all the time, because I’ve watched the same story play out for decades. A student starts training, gets excited, gets strong, gets fast, learns a pile of techniques, and for a while, they feel unstoppable. Then life shows up. Mileage shows up. Injuries show up. Stress shows up. Work, family, travel, responsibility, time under tension in the real world. Somewhere down the road that same student starts saying the sentence that makes my eye twitch: “I’m just not what I used to be.”
I have been doing various forms of fasting for the majority of my life. I was introduced to the concept by one of my Kung Fu teachers when I was in my teens, and it has been something I’ve followed ever since. It was never presented to me as a “diet.” It was presented as a practice. Discipline. Control. Clarity. The ability to operate without being ruled by comfort. Over the years, I saw something else too.
When people watch high-level performers, they often ask some version of the same question: “How do you just flip that switch?” One moment, you are relaxed, laughing, talking with friends. The next moment, your posture changes, your eyes harden, your breathing drops, and your whole presence shifts into a different gear. From the outside, it looks like magic. It is not magic. It is training.
You should have answers and tools for every part of a combative encounter. If the only option you trust is your firearm, stress will pull you toward that single solution. When you build more trained options across the force ladder, you can solve problems at lower levels and reserve higher force for the moments when you have no other choice.
Opera, non verba, is starting to feel like a superpower, because the ability to act separates the serious from the spectators.
In my approach, I teach this hierarchy not to diminish the value of grappling, but to frame it correctly. Grappling is not the preferred starting point; it’s the final layer of survival when all else has failed.
One of the earliest and most profound lessons I ever learned came from my first Kung Fu instructor when I was just a teenager: You are in charge of the tempo of your body. You operate at an internal rhythm, and the mastery of that rhythm is one of the most underrated life skills a warrior can possess.